Nestled under a downy soft blanket as the breeze dances through my hair, and the sun peeks over the horizon with the sound of small waves lapping just steps away. The strong black coffee in hand awakens my senses. Small almost imperceptible details come to mind in the stillness; the plip plip of acorns hitting the metal roof and rolling down to hit the deck, swishing of the reeds as they sway in perfect rhythm, light patter of chipmunk feet scurrying to ready himself for winter.
Ok – wake up! A scene from my most recent vacation is what I described above. In my mind, it is about the most heavenly of settings possible. So much so that after that short trip to an amazing lakefront cottage up north, followed by another vacation to visit my daughter and son-in-law in the mountains of North Carolina; I re-awakened a dream. An image that really I’ve had since childhood, back in the days when I was certain I would grow up to marry Grizzly Adams. I want a home in the wilderness and on the water. I want a peaceful refuge where I can interact daily with nature. I want a place where my family loves to gather and my grandchildren will want to spend the summers with me.
This wasn’t a new dream. As a matter of fact, I wouldn’t even say it was a real dream as a kid growing up on the farm. I just thought it was a reality, a for certain kinda thing. When I thought of life as a grown up, it always included wilderness, water, animals, and of course family. But then I grew up and as I went through the twists and turns of this life that I love by the way – things were different than what I’d once imagined. And that’s ok since we certainly can’t map out our futures when we’re children. Many of the things that were important to me then aren’t so much now, and visa-versa. But going on that trip reminded me that “This is something I want” and before I’m too old to enjoy it.
We should all have dreams. If we don’t dream – we won’t know what to focus on, what to strive for. Where do we want to be in 5 years, 10, 20? How do we make it a reality? Every so often it is a great idea to reboot. To stop and figure out what is really important in life and be sure when everything is said and done, we’re happy with what we’ve accomplished and where we’ve ended up.
Now that I’ve been re-inspired and have put that home on a lake in a woods on my vision board; how do I make it a reality? For me, it is through real estate investing. Not something I’d have thought of 25 years ago. But I’ve done a lot of studying, and also having been in real estate for 12 years now I know that fact of the matter is, most people (about 90%) who are multi-millionaires do so through real estate. Whether it is as a residential or commercial landlord, development, or whatever. Now, don’t get me wrong – I don’t need to be a multi-millionaire to accomplish my dream, however that would be nice. I do need a steady stream of permanent income and a nice lump of funds for a purchase.
I set my business development goals as a Realtor for several years and have accomplished each one so far. I write them down, map them out, share them with my coach, etc. But I haven’t allowed myself previously to dream personally and I think that’s been a great oversight. Because what is accomplishing my work goal if it doesn’t change my personal life? What good is it slaving away, despite loving my job, if I don’t per se, “stop and smell the roses”?
I am feeling a newfound zest for life since I’ve made my commitment to have my own paradise to enjoy with family and friends. Work comes a little easier, and sacrifice of delayed gratification more realistic.
And certainly there will be sacrifice. I understand that the key to being where few people are is to start doing what few people do. That’s a line from a favorite author/speaker Brian Buffini.
As we see the current season changing from Spring to Fall, I encourage you to take a few moments and remember your dreams and make your own change toward making them a reality. Yours may be completely different from mine – most likely they are! Just like the beauty that comes from myriad of colors in the fall, life too is beautiful because each of us is unique. Realizing and achieving your dream might not be an easy journey but I guarantee it will be an adventure. Awaken your passion in life and the world becomes brighter.